For this activity, I told my boyfriend that I was queer.
He gave me a compliment about my body; I gave him one too, and then he said jokingly: Him: “Yours is better”
Me: “I don’t think so”
Him: “Of course! You’re not a lesbian”
When he said that, I remembered about the activity and thought this was the perfect opportunity to do it.
Me: “I’m queer”
Awkward moment of silence
Him: “What?….I don’t believe that”
Me: “Why not?”
Him: “Because then you wouldn’t say no when I ask you if you want to have a threesome”
We were talking about this for a while, I told him that being queer does not necessarily mean that I am homosexual, that for me being queer is being anywhere in between of completely heterosexual and completely homosexual.
Saying I was queer definitely created conversation. When I said it, he immediately wanted me to explain what I meant, even though he thought that queer was the same as homosexual.